Ever notice how there always seems to be someone who is dead set on making you look bad? Are many criticisms spewed in your direction?
Nobody ever said that serving the Lord was going to be easy. Following Jesus is not for wimps. In fact, we are told that we will suffer and will be tested. As children of God’s soul garden He uses opposition to our cause in bringing about spiritual growth, enabling us to mature in faith, in knowledge, and in our obedience to truth.
Often I’ve talked about growing in grace and advancing in faith as climbing a spiritual mountain. That’s one of the reasons I named my devotional book: “Meet Him on the Mountain”. A few decades ago when I read Hannah Hurnard’s allegory “Hinds Feet on High Places,” it had a profound impact upon my own walk with Jesus. Perhaps that’s where I get the analogy from.
After you’ve been working at this arduous ascent for a goodly amount of time, it becomes easier to perceive God’s wisdom at work, and to see things from His point of view. Our spirits begin to make greater leaps. Our goals become more lucid. It’s exciting. And it is awesomely wondrous when we perceive ourselves morphing into a new kind of person as a result of God’s Spirit of power at work in us, using His written words. Without the Lord, we never would have been capable of becoming what we are at present. Neither do we cease to improve, nor arrive at perfection during this life below. The crux of this knowledge is that the Holy Spirit releases power into our lives as a direct result of our obedient faith.
The following is just one example of the many ways our responses to others undergo drastic and often surprising changes whenever we are actively growing in grace. Here is a fact that should be easy for all to agree upon.
A person of depth has no need to convince others of his or her significance.
Yes, that person who has been a thorn in your side feels as though he or she is not sufficiently significant.
But then, having a sense of significance is a legitimate need of the human phyche—everyone needs to be needed. When someone’s self-worth plummets, they tend to become hyper critical of others. They will usually target specific people who make the sufferer feel as if they are nearly worthless—an awful psychological pain. We don’t mean to make them feel that way, never-the-less, the Jesus in us outshines them, making them feel less than. So, before you dismiss that abrasive person who often may lash out at you and put you down, realize what it is they need. And then do your best to provide it. I think that’s what Jesus would do.
But you better get prayed up first. Put on the tenderness of compassion and remember to take your brain along too, because you’re going to need discernment. Don’t forget to suit up in the armor of God as you come alongside them and minister to that need.
Yes, it can seem like wasted effort. But what if it’s not? Actually, there is no such thing as wasted effort when that effort is exerted on behalf of Christ.
We have but one life and too soon it will pass—only what’s done for Christ will last.